So the most common questions I get asked is "are you still with Anthony?". No.
After I left for basic training, we were still together. But after being stuck in basic training for medical reasons, I finally graduated after 6 months of being stuck there. After I arrived at my new base for technical training, I found out he had moved on and I decided to open a new chapter of my life. Surprisingly enough, I wasn't devastated about it. I was excited to learn my job, and meet new people.
After being in Texas as an Air Force student, I met this amazing guy named Brett. We were tech school sweethearts, to say the least! We were inseparable and we truly enjoyed each others company. After about two months of knowing him, I got orders to Japan and he got orders to Germany. Now this really upset me but I'm a true believer that everything happens for a reason. He moved to Germany for two years and I moved to Japan for the same amount of time.
After being in Japan for a while, I entered a relationship that eventually turned toxic. I was cheated on and emotionally abused for the first year. After getting off that emotional rollercoaster, I decided to cut off all communication with this guy. He didn't like it and things escalated quickly. The situation ended with him in handcuffs and with a military order to not speak to me again during the remainder of his time at our base.
I eventually reunited with Brett after two years of being apart and we are as happy as can be. He has met my folks and I've met him. Everything is going great and I can't wait to do a video with him in the future!
After I move to Texas at the end of the month, Brett will be moving back to the states as well. We'll still be in a long distance relationship, but I'm sure we can make it work.
Hopefully I've answered our question! We live and we learn. We meet new people and we lose friends. But it's all apart of life and that's ok. Just keep looking towards the future!
xoxo Jasmaryz Lollita